Simple Valentine’s Day Traditions to Start With Your Kids This Year

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be over-the-top to be meaningful. In fact, some of the sweetest memories are built from small, repeatable traditions that your kids can look forward to year after year. If you’re a busy mom balancing work, home life, and everything in between, starting a few simple Valentine’s Day traditions can help you create holiday magic without stress or guilt. These traditions are easy to prep, budget-friendly, and designed to grow with your children — from toddlers to school-age kids. Whether it’s a special breakfast, a love note ritual, or a creative activity you repeat annually, these ideas will help you build connection, joy, and a little extra sparkle into your family’s February 14th. Below are five meaningful Valentine’s Day traditions you can start with your kids this year — and keep for years to come.

2/2/2026

5 Valentine’s Day Traditions to Start With Your Kids

1. The Valentine’s Day Breakfast Table

Turn your kitchen into a mini celebration by setting up a special Valentine’s Day breakfast. Think heart-shaped pancakes, pink smoothies, and small treats waiting at each child’s seat.

This doesn’t have to be complicated — even a few festive touches like heart napkins or a small card can make kids feel seen and loved first thing in the morning.

Why we love this:
It creates excitement around the holiday without pressure or expense, and it starts the day on a loving note.

2. Annual “Love Letters” to Each Other

Every year, write short love notes to your kids (and encourage them to write back, if they’re able). You can keep them in a special box or binder to look back on over time.

Over the years, this becomes a priceless keepsake filled with words of love, growth, and family memories.

Why we love this:
It builds emotional connection and gives your kids a tangible reminder that they are loved.

3. A Family Craft Night

Pick one simple Valentine’s Day craft you do together every year — like making heart wands, decorating cookies, or creating handmade cards for grandparents.

This turns creativity into tradition, and kids will begin to associate Valentine’s Day with fun, hands-on time together.

Why we love this:
It’s screen-free, meaningful, and adaptable as your kids get older.

4. A Valentine’s Day Book Basket

Each year, gift your kids one small Valentine’s-themed book and read it together before bed. Over time, you’ll build a sweet little holiday library.

Some ideas:

  • “Love You Forever”

  • “Guess How Much I Love You”

  • “The Day It Rained Hearts”

Why we love this:
It slows the day down and creates a calm, cozy ritual kids will remember.

5. The “Why I Love You” Jar

Throughout the month of February, write little notes about things you love about each child and place them in a jar. On Valentine’s Day, read them together.

Kids can add notes too — about siblings, parents, or even themselves.

Why we love this:
It builds confidence, kindness, and emotional awareness in a beautiful, simple way.

Valentine’s Day isn’t about perfection — it’s about connection. By starting one or two simple traditions this year, you’re creating moments your kids will carry with them long after the chocolates are gone.

Choose what feels doable, meaningful, and joyful for your family — that’s where the real magic lives. 💕