Tips for Brushing Toddler Girls’ Hair Without the Tears
If you’re a mom of a toddler girl, you know the struggle: brushing their hair can feel like a full-on workout mixed with what can sound like a murder. Between the tangles, the wiggles, and the dramatic “Nooo, Mommy!” — it can be a battle neither of you wants to fight at any time of the day.
But here’s the good news: these next tips won't be the all-in saving grace but they just may make the screams a little softer and experience not as dramatic. And if none of these help, let this blog just be a reminder that you are not alone.
1. Brush Wet or Damp Hair
Brushing dry hair (especially if it’s fine or curly) often leads to more tangles and breakage. Brush right after washing or if you don't have time then spritz with water to make the hair easier to work through and less painful.
2. Use the Right Brush
A gentle detangling brush or wide-tooth comb is a lifesaver. Look for one made specifically for kids’ hair — soft bristles and flexible design really do make a difference.
3. Distract and Entertain
Sing a song together, tell a made up story, or let your toddler choose a few special books to flip through. Sometimes the distraction is all it takes to make hair-brushing time less stressful.
4. Start from the Bottom
Always begin brushing at the ends of the hair and work your way up in small sections. This helps avoid tugging and makes it easier to handle knots without pulling on the scalp.
5. Conditioner, Conditioner
Did I mention conditioner? Don't just shampoo folks, add a nice massaged in amount of conditioner to really loosen those knots and soften the hair.
6. De-Tangling Spray
Take all the help you can get. Right after conditioner and a quick ring out of water, spray that hair with de-tangling spray and massage it in (my favorite is _______) . Get her changed while it sits a bit and then get to brushing.
Final Thoughts
Brushing your toddler girl’s hair might not ever be her favorite activity (or yours), but maybe you can find a little relief in these tried and true tips. And don't forget, prepare yourself too, bring water, don't wear a sweater and practice that deep breathing you always talk about.